Sunday, June 15, 2008

When you feel like letting go...

I remembered Che'Nelle telling the whole nation on Hitz.fm that to just feel good about yourself and don't feel stress out about what others are saying on having someone in your life. It is somewhat motivates me. She added we have to be happy first with ourselves and if that someone is in your life, he or she must add that happiness. Alhamdulillah, I'm happy with me being on my own. Of course, it's not like I'm hoping to be single for the rest of my life, it's just that I've not found the right guy yet. I don't know. Maybe I'm anxious bout this whole thing and just don't want to go there. It really freaks me out. All I know I'm enjoying my moment. You guys may think that I'm just saying that to feel good. True but not exactly true.

I've once watched Little Black Book. The story has its good lesson. Life doesn't always go the way we plan. That's the storyline. We are always told that you'll be complete when you have that other significant half and that you have achieved everything. Rite? Well not exactly. This Stacy (Brittany Murphy) came across her boyfriend's 'little black book' only to discover that her boyfriend kept pictures and phone numbers of his several ex-girlfriends. She then decides to meet one of the ex's in attempt to get closer to Derek's past life and ends up becoming friends with one of the ex.

Things then became pretty harsh as Stacy colleague, Barb (Holly Hunter) a producer on a TV talk show, Kippie Kann, unravel what was going on with Stacy. She kept track of this activity Stacy was doing with the 'Little Black Book' and stages her on a live performance of the talk and ends up losing Derek to the ex she became friends with. So she moved on and lastly she got a new, better job and meeting her idol Carly Simon.

You see, sometimes bad things happen in your life, but its not a sign like its over. It's a learning experience. You experienced the downs in the early stage, but Allah replace that with something better. I might not find the guy of my dreams, who knows I'm having my dream carrier in the future. InsyaAllah. All due to keeping positive in life. It doesn't mean that I have to hold back tears. Tears is a part of us. A friend to a sorrow soul. It's good to let go once in a while. Take away the misery inside.

3 comments:

me said...

Though it'll take some time for u to find the right one, i know in time u'll find the best.insya allah. Allah has His own plan for each and every one of us and urs is coming...it's just a matter of time.I pray that u'll be hepy dunia n akhirat with all the ppl around u who loves u so much.

love fatihah.

hehe me rase sebak plak berkata2 begini..hhehe

Asyida said...

ur day will come...
with the right guy..at the right time
and once that time comes...
u'll find it's all worth the wait...
;)

justnid said...

If u noticed, in Quran, usually a surah starts by mentioning about 'azab etc which freaks people out, supposedly. Though, it will ended up with verses about nikmat which gain hope for those who care. So the Quran had said so. Life starts miserably but insyaALLAH will ended up unexpectedly ;)

for those who care, *wink wink*